Gujarati Wedding: Traditional vs. Modern
Traditionally, Indian weddings are elaborate celebrations filled with rituals and customs dating back thousands of years. Weddings are usually between arranged couples, or those who have been partnered together by the bride and groom’s families for financial gain and family partnership. Usually involving 400 – 1,000 people, most of whom neither the bride or groom know personally, traditional Indian weddings are large festivities which are generally structured into pre-wedding ceremonies, wedding day ceremonies (divided into the Baraat, the Varmala and the Phere), and the Vidaai, or the final breakfast the day after the wedding day. Specifically, Gujarati wedding ceremonies are divided into many elaborate stages, symbolizing the beginning of a lifetime of togetherness.
The marriage of Suketu Soni and Divya Agarwal, however, will be a more modern love marriage. Not prearranged by the families, Soni and Agrawal met on an Indian online dating service. Both Suketu and Agarwal are well educated. Suketu graduated with an engineering degree, and currently works for an engineering firm in New Delhi. Agrawal is currently studying business. Both families are Hindu, and actively practice the religion. The juxtaposition between the traditional and modern Indian cultures during the ceremonies will provide an interesting look into today’s India.
The ceremonies will be held in Navsari, Gujarat. Located on the western coast of India, Gujarat is the most industrialized Indian state. With 13 academic universities and 4 agricultural universities, education is highly valued within Gujarat. Gujarat’s official language is Gujarati. Roughly 89.1% of the Gujarati population are Hindu. The main industries of Navsari are diamond polishing and bakery.
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